Wednesday, 25 January 2012

Angelina Jolie 3 months pregnant as she and Brad Pitt get set for baby no. 7

Angelina Jolie has reportedly told friends that she is expecting a baby again and is into the first trimester of pregnancy, sources revealed.
The 35-year-old and her 48-year-old partner Brad Pitt already raise six children together.

The A-listser couple has been dropping hints for weeks about wanting another baby and friends told OK! magazine their new bundle of joy is on the way. "It's not something she wants to officially announce but she's at a point where she is telling a select group of people. Angelina is really savouring every moment. She's having a tough time with morning sickness but says it's all worth it," the Mirror quoted a source as saying.
Angelina turned heads on Sunday in her elegant Versace gown at the Golden Globes - with no sign of a baby bump.
The demands of pregnancy will, however, force the screen beauty to relax the eating regime that keeps her ultra-sleek.
"Because Angelina sees so much starvation up close, it's always hard for her to indulge in food," a pal said.
The Salt star has already begun decorating for the new arrival to their brood.
"Angelina has cleared out her bedroom and redone it in white. She wants it to have a Zen-like feeling because she believes in the mind-body connection and wants her mind at peace," a friend said. (ANI)

Tuesday, 24 January 2012

Would you marry someone who was not a virgin?

We asked some people if they would marry someone who was not a virgin. Would you?

Like a virgin

For centuries, across cultures, virginity has been equated with goodness and virtue. The act of “saving” yourself for the one you marry was a testament to your character and good upbringing.
As time went on, the premium placed on virginity reduced. Today, most of the western world does not consider virginity an important trait in a partner and having sex before marriage is perfectly acceptable, and often, even expected.
Remember “The 40-year-old virgin”, a movie about a man who was 40, and horrors of horrors, a virgin?
Imagine trying to make that movie in India. Safe to say, it would probably not have gotten as many laughs here.

Virginity in India

Ours is a country that still values it’s purity and likes its young men and women to be untouched before they get married. There are mothers-in-law who excel in the art of conducting the “virginity test” – a spot examination that includes going into the bedroom of a newlywed couple the morning after their first night together and checking for blood stains on the bed sheets – stains that were purportedly left by the torn hymen of a virginal bride.
Of course, now, things are changing. Sex between unmarried couples is on the rise and many Indian metros are seeing men and women opting to live-in together without the bond of holy matrimony. Even amongst those who are open to sex before marriage, attitudes vary wildly – from those who see it as an expression of true and undying love to others who view it as a recreational activity between two consenting adults.
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And then there are those who draw a line between ‘fun’ and ‘marriage’. Men and women (mostly men) who believe that while it’s all right to sow your wild oats and all that, when it comes to marriage, only a virgin will do.

So would you marry a non-virgin?

We asked a few people on their views on the subject. Would they marry someone who they knew for sure was not a virgin?
The reactions we got revealed a mostly sexually-liberated lot.
Who cares!
For some of those we interviewed, their partners’ sexual past was inconsequential. Like one young man said, “If she’s a virgin, good for her. If she’s not, good for her. It wouldn’t matter anyway.”
I wouldn’t marry a virgin!
One young man categorically stated that he would not marry someone who was a virgin. The idea of being his partner’s first and only sexual partner didn’t appeal to him in the least.
Another girl laughed at the thought of marrying a virgin. To her, sexual experience would make things easier for the couple.
And then there was the young lady who reckoned that she’d probably get married around the age of 30. And the idea of marrying a 30 something male who was a virgin sent her into a fit of giggles.
So where do you stand on the subject and marriage and virginity?

Wednesday, 18 January 2012

Five ways to find Mr Right... by Mr Wrong



1.Mr.Right will NOT be found inside a club, pub or bar. This is the lair of the lothario and the lair of the loser. Spend more time walking through parks, attending painting classes and generally carrying out a lifestyle fitting of the film Amelie.
2. Mr.Right might start off as Mr.Overly Keen. Your sexual prowess is our weakness women of the world. Make him wait and if he sticks around he might just be the man for you. Unless you are hitting on me, in which case lose all inhibitions immediately please.
3. Mr.Right will make you feel like a princess at all times, he should be someone who celebrates your greatness and bends over backwards to ensure your happiness not vice versa. See Katie Price for inspiration, she has already gone through about four of them.
4. Mr.Right will notice the un-noticeable about you. I don't mean the new barnet or "delicious" Jimmy Choo heels you've just bought, but something more along the lines of the way you get one gorgeous dimple on the right side of your lips when you laugh loudly. If a man finds these details, he's worth a shot.
5. Mr.Right is not a singular entity. They say that there is someone for everyone, which is hogwash as there are many somebodies for everybody. If heartbreak has left you crestfallen and resigned to a life of cats, 'Sex and the City' re-runs and sensible flats you need a good kick up the bottom. Get out there, because another chap will know not to waste your precious self like the first pillock may have done.


Saturday, 14 January 2012

Tax saving without investing!


Tax planning is often a ritual that people do not give too much importance and is at best considered a necessary evil. More often than not, for individuals, financial planning itself begins and ends with tax planning. The fact however is that tax planning is the first and a very important step towards financial planning.
Suitability Analysis
Today, tax-saving avenues' offer a good range of investment opportunities with different levels of risk, return and liquidity. Choose an appropriate mix of investments keeping in mind your financial objectives. Most of the time, we either take excessive risk or too less risk. Do not get carried away by past data, for eg. when markets are at a high and about to fall, equities will give you the best track record. On the contrary, when interest rates are at a peak, it is the best time to look at fixed income investment avenues and lock-in the interest rates for the long haul.
Given the current condition of the markets, both equity and debt pose a fine opportunity to balance investments. Interest rates are at a peak and it may be appropriate to choose your bank deposits with 5 year lock in which will also provide you with tax benefit. At the same time, global cues have weakened the equities and most of the investments within this arena are available at lucrative valuations. If you already hold ELSS funds, it may be the right time to average your holding.
Often, in the last minute frenzy of saving taxes, one dumps all their monies in one single avenue. Do take a planned and well-informed call. It is recommended to use a combination of investments and have an appropriate asset allocation, based on your risk appetite. Also keep in mind the tax you need to pay on the returns from the tax saving investments that you choose.
Tax saving without investing!
This is true contrarian style; where you squeeze benefits without any penny going out of your pocket and even better, when you squeeze benefits out of expenses.
1. Exemptions/Reimbursements
First, one needs to look at the reimbursements that are available from the company and take maximum advantage of the same. Normal expenses that one incurs could help save tax. Some examples for the same would be Telephone / Fuel Reimbursements, Meal Vouchers, Company Car, etc. Provisions for these could differ from company to company. A person in the lower tax slabs can sometimes reduce one's tax liability to nil with exemptions alone!
EXEMPTIONS House Rent Allowance Minimum of :1. Actual HRA
2. Rent Paid - 10% of Basic
3. 40% of Basic (Non-Metros) or 50% of Basic (Metros)
Conveyance Allowance Rs. 800 / Month
Leave Travel Allowance 2 trips in a block of 4 Yrs
Amount not exceeding Air Economy or Rail AC I
Fare shall be for shortest distance and for a single destination
Medical Reimbursement Rs. 15,000 / Annum
2.  Deductions
There are several deductions available. Section 80C allows a maximum limit of Rs. One Lakh across investments ranging from — Provident Fund (including Public PF), Infrastructure Bonds, Fixed Deposits (>= 5 Yrs), NSC, Insurance / Pension Plan, Unit Linked Insurance (ULIP), Equity Linked Savings Scheme (ELSS), etc. It also includes tuition fees of children and also the repayment of principal on housing loan.
In addition, Infrastructure bonds worth Rs. 20k / annum is allowed for tax benefit u/s 80CCF. Infact, given the interest rate levels, this seems to be a lucrative investment avenue. Whilst investing in infrastructure bonds, it is pertinent to look at the rating, a 'AA+' and above is considered safe for investing. You would also have the option of choosing annual payout of interest or cumulative, here again you can choose the one that suits you best. These are typically launched during the fag end of the financial year and the window to subscribe is open for a brief period ranging from 15 days to a month.
Medical premiums up to a maximum of Rs 15,000 qualifies for deduction. One can claim an additional Rs 20,000 for parents (senior citizens).
3. Home Loan benefits
There is one more reason to buy a house — the tax benefits on your home loan, but remember, this should definitely not be the sole reason. The EMI that you pay towards such home loan has two components — Interest and Principal repayment. We have seen that principal will qualify under Section 80C among other investment avenues. The interest component provides a separate deduction and has a limit of Rs. 1.5 lakh for a self-occupied property.
As we welcome the New Year, let us vow to plan better and choose the contrarian way to create wealth and optimize on taxes - and not get caught in the last minute frenzy of tax planning!
Tips for the week
  • Understand your long-term financial goals — this is the starting point.
  • Start early so that you can do an effective financial plan, along with tax savings. This also gives you time to carefully evaluate various investment avenues.
  • Some tax savings do not require you to invest — take full advantage of them.
  • Hedge your Health / Life Risks.
  • You can claim a separate deduction for medical premium of your parents.
  • Take an informed decision, understand various nuances of investment avenues such as the time frame for contributions and also the lock-in period for investments.
  • If you find it difficult to manage enough money for tax saving investments every single time, use shorter-term products, so that maturity value can be used to save tax subsequently.
The author Mr. Anil Rego is the CEO and founder of Right Horizons, a leading end-to-end Investment Advisory and Wealth Management firm that focuses on providing financial solutions that is specific to customer needs.